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Marriage and couples

These articles cover marriage and couples in Nigeria: money fights, long distance after japa, childlessness, an unwell partner, and how couples therapy works.

Since 2023, food, fuel, rent and school fees have climbed faster than most salaries, and money fights often carry old expectations about who should provide. Tighter visa rules abroad keep some couples apart for longer than they planned. Couples facing childlessness hear the same questions at every wedding and naming ceremony. These pressures land on both partners, often in different ways.

Start with marriage under financial strain. If you're thinking about getting help together, read a guide to couples therapy.

On Mytherapist.ng you can book a couples session by video, voice or chat with a therapist who works with relationships and marriage, or go on your own if your partner isn't ready. If you're afraid of your partner, read recognising domestic abuse and our helplines page first.

Losing a Spouse: Grief and What Comes After

What grief after losing a husband or wife can look like, when it needs help, your rights against harmful widowhood rites, and the paperwork that follows.

Life in Nigeria

Tuesday, September 29, 2026

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Living With a Partner Who Has Bipolar

What bipolar disorder means for your marriage, the early signs partners spot, how to plan for money, safety and pregnancy, and how to look after yourself.

Relationships

Sunday, September 27, 2026

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Secondary Infertility: When Baby Two Won’t Come

Struggling to conceive after a previous pregnancy? What secondary infertility is, why it happens, why it hurts, when to see a doctor, and how to cope together.

Life in Nigeria

Wednesday, September 23, 2026

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When Your Partner Is Addicted to Betting

When your husband, wife or partner is addicted to betting: the signs, how to protect your money, how to raise it, keeping yourself safe, and support for you.

Relationships

Sunday, September 20, 2026

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Male Infertility and the Silence Around It

A male factor is involved in close to half of couples who struggle to conceive. The causes, the semen test, what’s treatable, “sperm boosters”, and the silence.

Life in Nigeria

Wednesday, September 16, 2026

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Erectile Difficulty and Your Mental Health

How anxiety, stress and depression feed erection problems, when it’s a sign to see a doctor, the risk of fake “man power” products in Nigeria, and what helps.

Mental Health

Tuesday, September 15, 2026

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IVF in Nigeria: The Emotional Side

Going through IVF in Nigeria? The emotional ups and downs of a cycle, cost and secrecy, what the law does and doesn’t cover, faith questions, and what helps.

Life in Nigeria

Monday, September 14, 2026

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Childlessness in Marriage: Handling Family Pressure

In-laws asking, prayer meetings you didn’t ask for, talk of a second wife. How couples facing childlessness can handle family pressure as a team, in Nigeria.

Relationships

Tuesday, September 08, 2026

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Long-Distance Love After Japa

One of you has japa’d and the other is still in Nigeria. How to keep a long-distance relationship going: a shared timeline, time zones, money and trust.

Relationships

Sunday, September 06, 2026

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Marriage Under Financial Strain

Money problems in marriage usually hurt through secrecy and blame, not only the shortfall. How Nigerian couples can talk about money, debt and family demands.

Relationships

Sunday, September 06, 2026

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When Your Partner Is Depressed and You’re Tired

Your partner is depressed and you’re running on empty, maybe even resentful. Why that happens, why it doesn’t make you a bad partner, and what helps you both.

Relationships

Saturday, September 05, 2026

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Recognising Domestic Abuse and Getting Help

Abuse is not only physical. How to recognise it, how to plan for your safety, and where to get help in Nigeria — including if you are not ready to leave.

Relationships

Saturday, August 15, 2026

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Infertility and Mental Health in Nigeria

The waiting, the questions at every family gathering, the blame that lands on women. What infertility does to mental health in Nigeria, and what helps.

Life in Nigeria

Friday, August 14, 2026

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How to book for a couple’s therapy session on Mytherapist.ng

Healthy relationships require effort, communication, and sometimes, professional guidance. Whether you’re looking to strengthen your connection or resolve ongoing challenges, Mytherapist.ng makes […]

Guides & How-To

Saturday, February 08, 2025

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The Lover’s Guide to Couple’s Therapy.

Relationships can be challenging, and sometimes couples need extra support to navigate difficulties and strengthen their bond. Couple’s therapy offers […]

Relationships

Tuesday, June 18, 2024

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The 4 Attachment Styles Explained (With a Quick Self-Check)

Secure, anxious, avoidant or fearful? What the four attachment styles look like in adult relationships, a quick self-check, and how to become more secure.

Relationships

Tuesday, May 14, 2024

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10 Signs You’re The Toxic Partner.

Relationships start magically — rosy, with sparks and butterflies, and they make us very happy.  But sometimes, the roses become […]

Relationships

Wednesday, March 29, 2023

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How To Have A Difficult Conversation With A Loved One: 9 Safe Tips

In any long-term relationship, there will be hard conversations—like an illness your partner has, something they did wrong, a better sex life, […]

Relationships

Friday, July 29, 2022

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